Wednesday, March 2, 2016

SO CAL TRIFECTA!

This last Saturday may have been one of the most action packed days in the history of days... well maybe that's an exaggeration, but it was glorious!

Grant Waggoner had a dream, a dream of snowboarding, surfing, and skateboarding all in one day. Saturday, he along with 8 lucky kids from Ladera Ranch Middle School, 1 lucky sophomore from SJHHS, 2 lucky Young Life leaders, and an amazing dad, Mitch Needleman, made this dream a reality!

Watch the video for some highlights!


This is a big part of what Young Life and WyldLife is about! Making memories with kids! Taking them to do things they never thought possible, with leaders who are for them, encouraging them, and loving them because these leaders know and love Jesus.

So often this opens the door to deep conversations. On on of the lift rides, Grant was asking kid about his classes. This kid said that he has a hard time paying attention because they are so boring. Then Grant asked him how he felt during the part of WyldLife when we talk about Jesus... the kid's face lit up, and he said that he loves hearing about that because he wants to know more about Jesus! This kid does not come from a church background, and has heard most of what he has heard about Jesus through his experience in WyldLife!

I love getting to be a part of this mission! I love getting to be a part of God's love story for these kids... especially when it involves snowboarding, surfing and skating all in one day!

To learn more about Young Life South County, and Ladera Ranch WyldLife, please text or call Luke Bright: 949-293-6443, or Grant Waggoner: 702-533-8324. You can also email Luke here or Grant here.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Take A Look Inside: Friday Morning at Founders


 
 
Take a look at what happens on any given Friday Morning at Founders Park. WyldLife meets at 7am, on Friday mornings in Ladera, and over 60 kids come almost every week to eat doughnuts, hang with leaders, play a game, and hear about Jesus.
 
When we started this we never dreamed anything like this would happen, but apparently kids are hungry for something like this, and I don't think its just the doughnuts!

Friday, September 25, 2015

Jesus' Mission

Kate is Back!
It was another great morning at Founders Park today! Kate was back! She is the youth pastor at Rock Harbor Mission Viejo and its so good having her come help out on Friday mornings.

Nothing like Founders on a Friday morning
Grant has done a great job of setting up different things for leaders and kids to do as they eat doughnuts and hangout before the game starts. From Spikeball, to Disc Slam, to ultimate Frisbee, there are several different way for kids and leaders to connect over a good doughnut.


Musical chairs... with a twist.
The game this week was a variation of an old classic, musical chairs. Instead of chairs we had the kids split up into two groups, one group acted as chairs, and the other as the people trying to sit on the chairs. It was fun watching as kids got wild and started fighting for a spot on a chair.

Bryce and some 6th graders talking about life.
I got the privilege of giving the talk today. I talked about having a mission, getting lost, and then being found.

I talked about a time in 4th grade when a friend and I were bored on a summer day and came up with a mission. We were going to get lost! We packed a water bottle, you have to be prepared you know, and set out from his house hoping to not be able to find our way home. The only thing was, he wasn't allowed to cross any streets with stop signs and he knew his way around his neighborhood too well. I decided that if we wanted to accomplish our mission we were going to have to split up. Seconds after we split up, I was completely lost.

I remember feeling like around each corner I would see his house, but each corner brought new, unfamiliar sights. The more I walked, the more desperate I felt. I will never forget the feeling of seeing his mom's car come around a corner. I was such a relief, and the feelings of desperation changed to feelings of relief and joy instantly.

Jesus came to this planet on a mission. The Bible tells us, over and over again, that Jesus came to rescue the lost. and to save people, even those that didn't know they needed saving.

I told the story of a man that was desperately lost. His name was Zacchaeus. Three things to know about Zach is that he was a tax collector, meaning he stole money from people. Tax collectors were hated because they worked for the occupying government. They were Jews that used authority given to them by Rome to take advantage of other Jews. The last thing to know is that Zach was short. He was a "wee little man" as a classic Sunday School song states.

So, when the day came when Jesus was coming to town, Zach didn't have a chance to see him. Imagine a scene something like the scene in DC this week with the Pope. People were crowding everywhere to get a glimpse of Jesus. Jesus had become a big deal. No one would let Zach get in, so he found a tree that hung over the road Jesus was traveling down. He hid himself in the leaves so no one would see him and waited till Jesus passed by.

The second Jesus got under Zach, Jesus did something Zach wasn't expecting. He looked straight up at Zach and said, "Zach, come down immediately... I must stay at your house today."

NO ONE WOULD HAVE EXPECTED THIS. Jesus, staying at Zacchaeus' house... People like Jesus weren't supposed to hang out with people like Zach. But Jesus didn't follow those rules. Jesus was different. Like the Pope stopping the parade to say hi to a little girl that got over the barricade this week, Jesus made time for everyone.

Zach responded to Jesus' kindness by changing. He told everyone he was going to give half of what he had to the poor, and then pay back thos he took advantage of 4 times the amount he stole. Zach knew that he had been lost, but was now found.

Jesus responded to those who questioned his actions by saying that he, "came to seek and save the lost." In John 3:17, directly after the ever so famous John 3:16, John writes, "For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him."

This was the mission of Jesus, to save, to find, to restore.

The three take-aways I had for the kids this morning were:

1. Jesus didn't come to hang out with "good" people, or popular people, or people that looked like they had everything figured out. Jesus came to be with everyone, especially the kind of people no one else wanted to be around. No matter who we are, how "good" we are, how "bad" we are, how strong or weak, how guilty, how messy, how rich or poor... Jesus came to be with us. Jesus wants to come to our house.

2. Jesus was on a mission to save people. He didn't come to judge or pint his finger at people and make them feel bad for not doing the right things, or making mistakes. Jesus came to love people, and to save them from living a diminished life. He doesn't use guilt and shame to show people what they are doing wrong, but lovingly invites them to follow him, motivating through love and kindness, like with Zach. Too bad so many of his followers, myself included at times, have missed that completely. Jesus uses love to invite people, not shame to exclude people.

3. Jesus can always find us, and he will never stop looking for us. In life, sometimes we just get lost. Its as true as anything, and, thank God, Jesus is always quick to search, and quick to find. Like he found Zach in the tree when no one else noticed him, he sees us and he invites us to come down, so he can come and be with us. We cannot get lost enough, or hide well enough for Jesus. He will always come to our rescue, he will always find us.

This is really GOOD NEWS. If you think of guilt and shame, or if you have ever experienced Christian people pointing a finger of judgment at you or someone you care about. I am sorry. That is not a good representation of Jesus. Jesus doesn't do that to change the world, Jesus loves, even to the point of death. Jesus was a perfect representation of God, Jesus was God, and God is LOVE.

World record amount of kids doing ninja kicks at Founders park.

Thursday, September 24, 2015

Take a look inside: Eat the Menu




Over 40 kids, and over $250 of McDonalds food... such a fun night.

The purpose of events like this in WyldLife is to give kids a place to be crazy kids, to build relationships between kids and leaders, and for leaders to earn the right to speak into their lives.

While these events just look like chaos, there is actually so much more going on just under the surface!

Monday, September 21, 2015

South County Young Life Celebration & Fundraiser

The Annual South County Banquet is just around the corner! Please join us for a fantastic evening filled with great food and drink, a wonderful silent auction, inspirational stories from the ministry this year, and some great entertainment in true Young Life fashion!
 

CLICK HERE to register for the event online, or text Luke, 949-293-6443, for more details. Every penny raised at this event will help continue the ministry of Young Life in Southern Orange County

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Eat the Menu!

Matt and Charlie with each teams menu!
Fridays are for WyldLife in Ladera Ranch!
 
We had our first Friday night Club last night. The game we played was called Eat the Menu! It has become the annual kick-off event for Ladera Ranch WyldLife club.
 
Last night over 40 kids came to McDonalds ready eat some really delicious and healthy food (there may be a bit of sarcasm there)! We split up into three teams and ordered $250 worth of food. Each team had to race through the food and the team that finished first won.
 
While this event may seem crazy (it is) and it may be hard to understand the reasoning behind doing something like this, it goes a long way in helping us leaders earn the right to be heard. Having these events where kids are encouraged to do something way out of the norm, but still super fun, helps them to realize that we want them to have fun, be crazy kids, and be themselves. As they begin to see that we aren't trying to change them, and that we genuinely want to be their friends, they begin to trust us. As this happens we get to share Jesus' love with them... and they listen because they know we care about them, and we have earned the right.
 
The beauty of Young Life and WyldLife is relationship. Leaders build real friendships with kids and then enter into their lives in order to support, encourage, and love. When kids give us permission, we are quick to help direct kids towards better life decisions, build habits that will help them in the future, and introduce them to Jesus, helping them learn what it is like to have a real growing relationship with him.
 
So, while things like Eat the Menu may seem a bit strange... there are some deeper things happening amidst the chaos.

Team Turkey Sandwich getting crazy!


The desert queens doing work on the sweets!


Chomp chomp chomp...

When WyldLife takes over McDonalds!

The MVP of the night... you don't want to know how much her ate.

Jesus' parents lost him...


Mason is pumped to be at WyldLife!
It was another great Friday @ Founders! Kids were there starting at 6:45 even though things don't really get going until 7:07. We don't mind at all though because it gives us a chance to hang out more and spend more time getting to know them. We blew through 6 dozen doughnuts by 7:10, and I'm thinking we might need to start bringing more doughnuts... not the worst kind of problem to have! Its pretty crazy how many kids love waking up a couple hours early on Friday mornings to come to WyldLife!

Getting ready
The game this week was one that we played at summer camp this year. Its a game of tag with a twist. Everyone finds a partner and then spreads out. One team is chosen to split up, one person being "it" and the other person running away. The person running can link up with other teams of two in order to escape, but then one of that team is now getting chased... it may sound confusing but its a lot of fun, and the kids had a blast.

Matt Berry on the hunt.
It was really fun watching some of the kids get super into the game. One of the best things about this game is that it forces kids to connect with each other. Peer groups are important. Its important for early adolescents to have a group of friends that they feel they "belong to." These groups can be seen as cliques, but they are an important part of adolescent development. So, while we don't really see these groups as a bad thing, we want to encourage kids to begin to look outside of these groups and think about being friends with other kids. This game is great because it makes kids begin to do that.

Grant and Matthew getting everyone excited for Eat the Menu!
Grant gave the talk this morning. He talked about getting lost as a kid once. He was grocery shopping with his mom at a Super Walmart, and while his mom bought the food, he would play with toys on the toy isle. One time, he lost track of the time playing with some toy puppies (yeah, puppies... classic). He couldn't find his mom and right when he was about to freak out, they started calling for him over the loud speaker.

He was safe, and his mom was comforted when she saw him emerge and run towards her.

The realization of being lost is a terrible feeling, and, as a parent, the realization that your kid is lost is even worse. One time my oldest daughter started playing hide-n-seek with me at a Spots Chalet without telling me we were playing this game. As I called out for her, and looked and looked, I started getting more and more panicked. It was so relieving when I found her and realized she was never lost (although we had a serious talk about not doing that in the future!).

In the Bible we don't have very many stories of Jesus as a kid, but there is one from when Jesus was 12. Its found in Luke 2:41-49.

In this story, Jesus and his family are returning from an annual trip to the Temple in Jerusalem. This was the custom of Jewish people during that time. As Jesus' family was traveling back, a day into their journey they realized Jesus was missing. I can't imagine how this must have felt as a parent. Not knowing where my daughter was in a store was hard enough, I can't believe losing her on a trip and not realizing it until a day of travel was over!

After realizing he was nowhere to be found, they booked it back to Jerusalem, and after 3 DAYS they found him... sitting in the Temple, with the teachers, listening to them and asking questions.

I would have had some words for my son, and Mary and Joseph did as well. As they scolded and questioned Jesus for treating them that way, and basically ignoring them as they departed, Jesus answered saying, "Why were you searching for me? Didn't you know I would be in my Father's house?"

His parents weren't too keen on this answer, and the Bible told us that he returned with them and, "was obedient to them."

Grant had a few takeaways from this passage. First, Jesus was a 12 year old. At one point, Jesus was the same age as a bunch of the kids that come to WyldLife. Jesus had to learn what it meant to be obedient to his parents, he had to learn the balance of being completely human, but yet more than that. Jesus had to learn what it was to respect and honor his parents, while still being God and knowing, in a way we may never understand, that God was his true Father.

Also, Jesus was incredibly smart. The Bible tells us that even at 12 years old, the teachers he was sitting with were amazed at Jesus' knowledge of things. Jesus was a 12 year old, and Jesus was God.

Lastly, Grant asked everyone to think of the place were they are most comfortable. For Jesus, it was in the Temple, his Father's house. For us it could be a number of places. Its important for kids to have a safe place, a place where they can be totally secure and comfortable. A place where they can ditch their masks, the things they do to make themselves acceptable to others. It is important to have a safe place because we need a place where we can let our guard down and rest. These places help us find our identity. This was a part of the process for Jesus, and it is vital to our own process of discovering who we really are.

On a side note. I think its important to realize that God is a Father. He was Jesus' father in a very practical and special way, but he is also our father. God is a Father that will never leave, that will always love no matter what, always forgive no matter how terrible the mistake, always chase after the kids that wonder off, and always guide his children, even when they don't recognize him. God is a loving, and everlasting Father in a very real way.

God is a GOOD FATHER... he is these kids' father, he is your father, and he is my father. Accepting and understand this more and more has had incredibly deep implications. It has become my identity, and helped me get through some incredibly hard and lonely times. Knowing God as your Father can have the same implications for you and for these kids. It is the reason why I love getting to do Young Life so much.

World record of the day: most middle schoolers chasing a Frisbee with $5 taped to it!